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To Have The Marriage You Want, All You Need Is...
10-04-2009, 04:45 AM
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To Have The Marriage You Want, All You Need Is...
Knowing that people learn MOST from modeling and patterning other people, how many truly happily married couples have YOU had the chance to learn from first-hand and directly?

If not directly, what about from a distance...has there been a happily married couple who you could observe from a distance and learn from?

For MOST people, the number of happily married people they have had the opportunity to learn from adds up to a "Big, Fat ZERO!"

For MOST people, what they saw instead was a bunch of adults who mistreated and disrespected each other. What they heard was married people complaining and griping about their spouse every chance they could – or telling "jokes" that insinuated how bad marriage was for them. And the rest of the time, they just felt the bad feelings that come from being around two unhappy people who fought, argued, and bickered incessantly.

Because of this, MOST people determine that they are going to have a different and better marriage than their parents and other married people they knew growing up...and with that wonderful intention, they turn right around and repeat the cycle...they end up with the very same kind of marriage they said they weren't going to have.

How does this happen?

It happens because they modeled and patterned – they learned – their relationship strategies, techniques, and viewpoints from people who were in unhappy relationships.

That's what they know and that's what they unconsciously apply to their relationship which produces the unwanted outcomes.

So, what is http://www.HusbandWifeHelp.com all about? It's about sharing the strategies, techniques, and viewpoints of people who ARE happily married.

http://www.HusbandWifeHelp.com is your chance to FINALLY get to model and pattern the kind of marriage relationship that everyone wants but so few have.

This is what makes me and my approach so unique and different from most marriage counseling. Academic psychology wants to diagnose all that's wrong and what doesn't work so that they can then supposedly "fix" it.

I don't subscribe to that model. You already know what you know and you already know that what you know isn't working as well as you want it to. Which means...

All you need is someone to show and tell you what happily married people do...and the viewpoint they have that causes them to do what they do...so that you can view things in the same way and do the same thing they do and get the same result they get – a happy, loving, satisfying, fulfilling, and intimate marriage relationship.

That's all you need! That's all you need to get your marriage relationship moving in the direction you've wanted for all this time.

Calle Zorro
Get the happy, loving, satisfying marriage you want at http://www.HusbandWifeHelp.com
(918) 814-3480
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